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Posted by: DeanMarston Nov 17 2008, 05:08 PM
Thanks to some of the people who know the real truth at livingincebu and let me know about this thread.
I am being set up by Chris Bennetts and his friends.
A lot of people will back me up that the real criminal here is Chris Bennetts. So please don't beleive the black picture that Chis Bennetts is trying to paint of me. Since he had no problem posting my picture and even going as far as paying for that SunStar ad I am going to give everyone information on him so people can know the real truth.
Chris Bennetts is the man running pornographic LBFM websites featuring Filipinas, some who are underage. I have pictures to prove it that he used to post on his mensasiantravelexploits and Angeles Bar websites.
(Business information deleted by Paul.)
People here in the Philippines are aware on his actions and he was even reported that he and his wife Antonieth ( at the time ) opened a Dance Studio on Mactan Island, Cebu Philippines. His wife at the time was serious about the studio but Chris had other intentions. Chris did even know he was reported to have been inviting other older men to come and watch the young girls dance in their underwear and was reported to have been taking pictures of the young girls that he proudly showed his friends.
During the day Christopher Bennetts tries to come off as an upstanding businessman and community member, but at night his a demented person who takes advantage of young underage girls. In the last 3 years Christopher Bennetts has become member of the Rotary Club of Mactan and has made a lot of influential friends who are involved in politics who he could use as protection is he is ever investigated.
Chris and I spent a lot of time together and I am 100 percent sure he is part of an international underage pornographic syndicate. Who specialize in making pornographic videos and pictures of young Filipina girls and boys.
Posted by: DeanMarston Nov 17 2008, 05:10 PM
There is a wanted add for him now published. There are arrest warrents issued and also a deportation order is in progress
He is now in hiding on Mactan Island. He will be in the Philippines Justice system soon
f*** OFF CHRIS. I know you paid for that ad. I am not going to forget this and I swear you are going to get what is coming to you here or in Aus.
Posted by: DeanMarston Nov 17 2008, 05:11 PM
Be careful who tells you what, as they may also have an agenda.
Yes, the Philippines does have people "not worth knowing" as the original poster said in the first post of this thread.
Chris's agenda is to get me thrown out of the country because I was taking care of his girlfriend when he was out giving other girls cream pies and getting them pregnant.
Chris is the person here NOT WORTH KNOWING unless you are the same as he is, disrecpecting to the people of the Philippines.
Posted by: DeanMarston Nov 17 2008, 05:12 PM
Yes, I know you know both individuals.
If you know the OP, then I don't think you really need to ask about his agenda.
Thanks Mate for having my back.
People will know the truth about Chis Bennetts.
Posted by: DeanMarston Nov 17 2008, 05:14 PM
Now, once again, Mr. Tibbs. What agenda would he have? Please let us know. As I stated, I know both of them, as well as others involved in this case.
I guess what I am saying here is, put up, or shut up. Either you have something to say, or you are just posting to read something in contrast.
@%#&s sake you know damm well what the agenda of Chris is. I have all the information and pictures to prove it. There are a lot of girls that want to press charges on Chris and have him arrested. (Sentence deleted. You can at least keep the filth to a minimum in an open forum. - Paul)
Posted by: DeanMarston Nov 17 2008, 05:15 PM
Dean was introduced to me by Paul in 2007. He is an intelligent guy and can even be charming. I invited him and a number of others to my home for Christmas dinner.
Then around May / Jun he started to hang out with me at the bars. I was not aware that he had a falling out with Paul at that time. Paul was still in Bogo and we did not have much contact.
I introduced Dean to my then serious girl friend. I even invited him to be a god parent of my son. I was surprised at how generous Dean was providing a very nice gift. I now realize Dean was already working on her.
During June / July I was hanging out with Dean and my girl friend was becoming increasingly quarrelsome and financially demanding.
I provided her with a brand new two bedroom apartment which I fully furnished including aircon. In addition to groceries I would bring her food I personally cooked which she had always appreciated in the past. Now she turned her nose up at it.
We had been planning to live together but she started to give me such a hard time I had second thoughts. Visiting her and my infant son became unpleasant. I was particularly annoyed that she would be aggressive and argumentive in his presence and told her time and time again that even he was young he could sense the negativity.
At the same time I started to become aware that Dean was making big problems for me behind my back. I had no idea why. I started to think he was disturbed. I started to distance myself from him.
The girlfriend became even more disturbed and finally presented me with a letter of demand from an attorney for 50,000 a month support. I estimated I was currently spending about 20,000 a month to support her and the baby. This letter of demand was accompanied by verbal blackmail.
Call me stupid but I still did not put two and two together. It was not until late August that I discovered Dean hiding behind the bedroom door of my girl friend when I was trying to make one last attempt to get her to be reasonable.
Dean was already having sex with my girl friend back in June (maybe even earlier) and after spending the night at the apartment I provided would come and visit me and pretend to be my friend then report anything (fact and fiction) back to my girl friend to further brainwash her against me.
After I discovered they were together they decided to live together and have denied giving me access to see my son since despite it be stipulated in the support agreement.
I started to research Dean and follow the trail of destroyed lives he has left. He is truly one of the most evil people I have met in my entire life. Totally selfish. But this is apparently typical of a Cystal Meth head and that is exactly what he is. He is a level three Shabu user and even self mutilated his left arm in what I assume was a suicide attempted during a bad trip.
Now I am a big boy and if it was just a matter of him taking away my girl friend then I would just be pissed off. He has taken away my son.
I think any father reading that understands and it need no further explanation.
So my agenda is getting my son back.
Incidentally he now has my ex-girl friend fully addicted to Shabu also. She has lost ALL her friends. They have turned against her and support me.
She seriously neglects the child. She constantly left the child in the care of a friend for weeks on end and would stay at Deans apartment. Once she was told there was no more cerolax she went out to buy it but came back two days later. Apparently Dean had been drunk and she needed to rescue him which was more important than food for her son. On another occasion she left my son in the care of a complete stranger for a similar situation with Dean.
I do not take any high moral back ground on this one. I am far from being a saint. I have made many mistakes myself.
My only purpose now is to get my son and then once I can secure him a passport I will leave the Philippines. This experience has been life changing for me.
I hope this answers your question about my motivation and I would be happy to provide more details in PM
I was there for your girlfriend who you never cared about. She was just another one of your conquests. You used her the same as you did with all the other girls. She never ment anything to you. She was just another place to depoist your ###### loads.
There is no way the authorities will see you as a fit parent. I have all the orginal pictures to prove it and I will show them. Your kid of anyone elses kid is not safe to be in the same room as you.
Posted by: DeanMarston Nov 17 2008, 05:16 PM
It may be a good thing he did come along to expose her true colors before I did marry her. I have made mistakes and don't pretent to be the inocent party. The only incocent party is the child and now he is the only one to be concerned about. I had no plan to take the child from her until i really found out what sort of mother she is. I know I will be a good father to him and he is already accepted by his older siblings who are waiting for me to "bring him home".
Your exwife should come here and tell everyone what a bad husband you where. There is no way you are fit to be a parent. I am sure you will try to take pictures of your son and post them on the internet so you can make some money from it.
Posted by: DeanMarston Nov 17 2008, 05:18 PM
If anyone wants to know the truth and even see the pictures of Chris and all his conquests please email me at
xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
If anyone has a good lawyer, they can help me. I will let the truth be known.
Posted by: DeanMarston Nov 17 2008, 05:20 PM
There is a wanted add for him now published. There are arrest warrents issued and also a deportation order is in progress
He is now in hiding on Mactan Island. He will be in the Philippines Justice system soon
f*** OFF CHRIS. I know you paid for that ad. I am not going to forget this and I swear you are going to get what is coming to you here or in Aus.
Posted by: DeanMarston Nov 17 2008, 05:22 PM
Be careful who tells you what, as they may also have an agenda.
Yes, the Philippines does have people "not worth knowing" as the original poster said in the first post of this thread.
Chris's agenda is to get me thrown out of the country because I was taking care of his girlfriend when he was out giving other girls cream pies and getting them pregnant.
Chris is the person here NOT WORTH KNOWING unless you are the same as he is, disrecpecting to the people of the Philippines.
Posted by: Dave_Hounddriver Nov 17 2008, 06:22 PM
It shows real stones for Dean to show up on this forum and defend himself, however, if the allegations quoted here are true, Dean, you will need more than a good lawyer. There is a thread on here somewhere about a fellow getting 6 years for a little marijuana . . imagine how unfriendly the PNP will be if your `left arm says it all`as the OP says.
Whoops . . edit . . looks like Dean`s posts have been deleted . . Well unless I was delusional I did see them here.
Posted by: Bob Ward Nov 17 2008, 06:28 PM
Whoops . . edit . . looks like Dean`s posts have been deleted . . Well unless I was delusional I did see them here.
Too much Cuervo Gold on Saturday I think. LOLOLOL
Posted by: Bob Ward Nov 17 2008, 06:31 PM
Whoops . . edit . . looks like Dean`s posts have been deleted . . Well unless I was delusional I did see them here.
Too much Cuervo Gold at the Fiesta!
Posted by: Admin Nov 17 2008, 11:23 PM
Chris is the person here NOT WORTH KNOWING unless you are the same as he is, disrecpecting to the people of the Philippines.
Dean, if I didn't PERSONALLY know at least one of your victims, I could see others supporting your argument. Actually, I know more than one, but the others were not willing to come forward. They are scared of you, I suppose.
You tried to screw my girlfriend, after I invited you into my home as friend, you lowlife son-of-a-bitch. Remember that incident? Actually, two of them... Kim too. But she shunned you as well, didn't she? Yes, she told me about what you tried to do to her, after the fact. Vivian has already state that she is happy to be a witness to that, for the prosecution. Trying to get her to feel between your legs. From the guys I meet, who have known and befriended you, it seems as though this is a behavioral trait in you, concerning your "friends".
Yeah, good one - buddy.
Also, you are a coward, and will always be coward. Remember the incident, the one that was witnessed by probably more than 50 people in front of MB's not long ago? It has something to do with a cowardice, mid 30's Australian, who was too scared to step foot outside a truck. Was it that you were hiding in the back seat? Or, was it that you just couldn't get the door open?
Posted by: Bob Ward Nov 17 2008, 11:33 PM
Now mind your fingers! You may have to be pole dancing soon to support the hospital bills!
Posted by: Terp Nov 17 2008, 11:41 PM
As an Admin type guy I see a lot of flaming going on here which is against the rules of this forum.
So I will lock this thing for a day or so to let things cool off....
Posted by: ROCO22 Nov 18 2008, 10:15 AM
No Politics eh?
No worries...
This thread trumps political blah-blah anytime!
Posted by: scianna54 Nov 18 2008, 04:12 PM
For sure it sounds as if Dean is on a slippery slope. I trust our admin and his first hand experiences in that regard. True also what Robert says (even if Mr. "I know it all" aka "I avoid no fight or argument" from down under disagrees), there are always 2 needed to do a screw up. I am also wondering what Mr. LBFM is doing in his spare time. There is always some truth even in the biggest lie.
Lot's of interesting information to say the least.
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Posted by: breakfast Nov 18 2008, 06:41 PM
Could someone please put up the copy of information detailing police requests for information about Dean if he is wanted in relation to sex offences against minors.
Cheers.
Posted by: Philippines Escape Nov 18 2008, 09:45 PM
There is only one person that would believe all the rubbish that Dean has written and that is his crystal-meth-head girl friend. Sadly she
I found most of it laughable (in fact I did laugh out aloud at some of it) but there are a few things that I need to respond to.
Firstly let me say Dean is going to have not one opportunity but actually two opportunities to put forward all his accusations in a court of law. I have filed two cases against him (and also against the girlfriend). The first is for Grave Oral Deformation relating to his accusations that I am a pedophile. The other related case is extortion / black mail related to these same accusations. The material he posted here will be added to the case.
I notice Dean did not say that I am convicted pedophile on the run as he told his girl friend and she told just about everyone she could. He told the girl that he has a police friend in Australia and checked up on me and I am “the most wanted pedophile on the run in Australia” Such rubbish is so easily disproven.
The reality is that I have a totally clean record with perhaps one or two minor traffic violations and I have never been so much as interviewed about anything else. Of course when I came here three years ago on a 13a visa I had to supply my Police clearance from Australia.
Dean claims he is being set up. This will be no kangaroo court Dean. The cases filed are very real and people you know only too well.
You have been fully investigated Dean. Let me give you some insight. A trip to your old apartment to see you old land lady. You can imagine what she had to say about you to the investigating officers. Then pointed to a blotter about a girl you attempted to push out your top story bedroom window in the early hours or the morning while you were both high on shabu. A visit to the bars with the investigators could not have been more fruitful. Just the mention of your name brought disdain from most of the girls. Girls like Precious and Apple were more than willing to share their stories. Why did you rip up her Health card anyway? It took her two weeks to replace and she needed to go back to the province. Did you know that both Precious and Apple had a plan to get you. Anyone that lives in Cebu just visit Mango and mention Den Den to the working girls…
The trip up to Bogo was a revelation. You must be the most hated person to have ever gone there. Do you remember that quiet gentle spoken dude called Harold. He told many stories about you and how on two occasions he saved you from what would have been a lynching mob. You needed the Police protection of PO3 Dosdos arranged by Harold to take you home. He said to me that he felt obligated to protect you as you were in his company. How did you repay Harold for protecting you…stabbing him in the back making an untrue allegation against him.
We learnt of your abuse and assault of a girl at Cheers videoke bar near the market. We learnt of your abuse and assault of a girl at RDM Videoke bar near the peer. We also met girls you promised to marry like Jolly-babe, Maria and Sheryl. How many girls have you robbed of their virginity with a promise of marriage?
Then there was the incident with the vice mayor of another place near Bogo at the Pizza pub. In a drunken state you told him that you wanted to fuck his girlfriend. He got up and slapped your face and you did nothing (very wise of you in hindsight). The police were called but he did not want to file charges. Maybe that was his kabit and he did not want scandal but I think you were also very wise to leave Bogo after that and never return. The investigators did speak to the vice mayor also. Nothing else came out of that except a stronger resolve and confirmation that you are indeed an undesirable and should be deported.
Then there are all the incidents here in Cebu and on Mactan. You would be amazed. How about the two guys that followed you to Frolics bar because you damaged their car and they were waiting for you outside. I actually don’t want to mention too much more. Lots of surprises waiting for you.
You are trying to make out I am setting you up. You set yourself up. I just pointed out the trial for the investigators to follow.
I do need to mention Rotary as you have implied that I am using contact through Rotary to “set you up”. Rotary is nothing like that. It is simply a service organization. They help people. I personally don’t know any politicians or otherwise influential people through Rotary that have offered me any assistance in this endeavor.
“Chris is the person here NOT WORTH KNOWING unless you are the same as he is, disrecpecting to the people of the Philippines.” WOW this comment from the guy that says of trying to show a Filipino something is “like trying to teach spastics to dance”
“Chris's agenda is to get me thrown out of the country because I was taking care of his girlfriend when he was out giving other girls cream pies and getting them pregnant.” If you call getting her addicted to Shabu taking care then I can not argue with you.
“There are a lot of girls that want to press charges on Chris and have him arrested.” So bring them forward…
“I was there for your girlfriend who you never cared about. She was just another one of your conquests. You used her the same as you did with all the other girls. She never ment anything to you. She was just another place to depoist your ###### loads.” The truth is that she is one of only three girls in my life I have been in love with. I had a plan to spend the rest of my life with her. I shared my dreams with her. I suppose I have to thank you for exposing her weak character to me. In fact the hardest things has been to acknowledge to myself that she was just a gold digger all along.
“There is no way you are fit to be a parent. I am sure you will try to take pictures of your son and post them on the internet so you can make some money from it.” Dean has posted the most foul of accusations against me but I think this one is the most revealing of all. This is a very sick mind. If I needed reminding of why I have assisted in getting you investigated this is it. My resolve is stronger than ever.
One thing about level 3 crystal meth users is they are both delusional and paranoid.
Posted by: Philippines Escape Nov 18 2008, 09:52 PM
Cheers.
I will not post the details of the case but it is for Acts of Lasciviousness in Relations to RA 7610 (2 counts) girl is 15 years old and part of the evidance is a rather disgusting picture of Dean with the girl.
There is another girl 16 that is in the process of filing a case that includes both sex and shabu use. (waiting on a relative of legal age to arrive from Leyte as a minor can not file the case alone)
One of his favoriate places to pick up underage girls was the clubs around Mango Square.
Posted by: Philippines Escape Nov 18 2008, 10:12 PM
other sayings inlcude takes two to tango AND Where there is smoke there is fire
I do not claim to be Mr Innocent but I categorically reject these most disgusting and false accusations made by Dean. The thing is they will be dealt with in a court of law and not decided here.
I also don’t like the title Mr LBFM and would request it not be used but if you insist on calling me Mr LBFM then you should at least refer to Dean as "Den Den Ortin" a name he has introducded himself as countless times.
Posted by: robert51 Nov 18 2008, 10:41 PM
sounds like you two know way to much about each other.... let he who is without sin cast the first stone... i cant wait to read the paperback..
Posted by: Admin Nov 19 2008, 10:07 PM
Let's just leave this thread closed. I feel as though it has run its course.
Thanks,
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