This saga is taking on Jerry Springer proportions.

I now have to respond to the most ridiculous of accusations and frankly it’s a total waste of my very valuable time. 

The information I requested has arrived and I just need to find a time (and the motivation) to respond here with it and put an end to this rubbish.

WATCH THIS SPACE - RESPONSE AND FULL REBUTTAL PUBLISHED HERE SOON

I received an email last night informing me that a person has set up a site attacking me using information provided by Marston.   These are the same false allegations Marston has made against me and I have published on this site.  What is new is that this website has the “proof” Marston always claimed to have yet like him, fails to actually produce.

The instigator  is Even Iliadis, a person who was kicked out of Rotary some time ago and ever since has made it his life’s mission to attack the Rotary Village Aid program and Rotary District 3660, of which I am the current president.

Iliadis claims to have brought these allegations to the attention of the Governor and has not received a response.  I can report that I have not been contacted or questioned by the Governor or any other Rotarian about these allegations.   I think the bottom line is they do not take them seriously.

When you read Iliadis’ website, which I will link to once I have completed my response to the allegations, you would think it is a moral crusade against me.  I will be able to show that his only motivation for this site is to attack Rotary.   I have not received any communication or questions from Iliadis, not even notification of the existence of the site and its allegations.  It appears Iliadis does not really want a response from me but will get a response regardless.

Iliadis’ website has been attacking everything Rotary for some time with allegations of corruption and mismanagement.  Like this attack on me, the previous attacks on Rotary contain false information, gross distortions and fantasy.  This is why the Governor and Rotary do not take it seriously.

I am inclined to do the same as the Governor and Rotary and ignore him, but I will not.  Out of respect for Rotary and in consideration that some people might believe the rubbish posted on the site I will respond to the allegations in full.

I will first state that I am NOT the owner of the websites and pictures listed on his site and have sent a communication to the owner of the pornographic website requesting information about the picture of the young looking girl.   Under the law the website owner is required to provide details of the custodian or records for the owner of the image.   The identified owner of the images can be requested to provide proof of identity and age.

If this custodian is not provided then the matter can and should be immediately referred to the FBI for investigation and you would have my full cooperation in doing so.  I will add that the domain is hosted in the US and therefore comes under US jurisdiction.  The website owner is a long term client of mine and I do not anticipate any problem or delay in his providing me with details of the custodian. When I have this information I will provide a full response to all the allegations and false claims made on the website of Even Iliadis.

Message to Iliadis

You don’t know me and you have attacked me based on circumstantial information I will easily refute along with many of your other allegations.   This website is written from my heart.  I think compassionate human beings that read it will recognise the truth and sincerity.  I am not ashamed of my humanity and expressing my feelings as I have here.

You will notice that I have not updated this site for some time.  This is because I am now getting on with my life.  I have not forgotten nor will I give up on Rex but for the time being there is nothing I can do and I have other people in my life to take care of.

This website was never made to gain sympathy from Rotary or the expat community.  It was made to document events for concerned organizations including IJM, PNP and AFP.  It was also my last attempt to try to communicate with Ruby who is controlled by Marston with the aid of drugs. Lastly it was therapeutic on my part.

For your information I left the Philippines some time ago and have no interest in returning other than concerning Rex.  I am happy again for the first time in many months and I don’t want to be here on this site responding to this chapter of my life I have closed.  I am more focused on positive things.  Here is another site for you to do some detective work on - it is mine.  http://powerofthoughts.info/2009/a-time-to-let-go/

ps  With regard to resignation from Rotary I have offered this in the past when I could no longer perfrom my role due to the plan by Marston to have me murdered.    I will provide the Governor owith absolute proof of this plan to murder me and he will be able to assure other Rotarians that the threat is very real.  The resignation offer is still there if my club or the district request it.

There have been more SMS mesages from Ruby to Vanessa.  First she asks why I have blacked out the face of Vanessa in the pics of her holding Rex.

gayon alam ko na kong. sino kang nag txt2x. sa akin ikaw pala si vanessa ganong wala mo ipakita, ang imong nawong gahalok ka

There was no need to answer that question. A message a bit later gives the answer loud and clear

magbatay lang mo doha ni chris? kay gebaharan na saya ni dean gapatyon, maukiw dai batay lang ka nako at ayaw nag txt naho??

Here I am told Ruby says that when the guys find us they will kill us together.

Well now I know.

Before I did not know if Ruby really knew of the plan to kill me. This confirms she is a co-conspiritor.

Ruby is a very bad person - worse than I ever imagined.  She truly belongs with Marston.

The part that really gives me pain is that Rex might learn one day that his mother was part of a plan to kill his father. No child should have to live with that.

I will take Rex away from her and jail will be the best place for her along with her sick criminal boyfriend.

I am sure some reading this think this is all drama. That I might be overracting. I have even herd someone say I have lost the plot.
I can only say at this time that its all very real and I am constrained on what I can say on direct police advise. One day it might all come out.

Vanessa told me that as soon as she first saw Rex she loved him. She has helped me look after half a dozen times when I have had secret access. Vanessa will help me take care of Rex when I get custody.

Rex just spilt his drink grabbing for it and looks a bit surprised

Vanessa and Rex at McDonalds

As far as Ruby knows I got to see Rex only two times after the so called support agreement. After that she demanded I ask the permission of Marston if I wanted to see my son. I secretly continued to see Rex up until the time she disappeared with Marston to Negros without warning.

Ruby really has no idea how much we got to see Rex because most of the time she was off with Marston taking shabu staying away for up to 48 hours at a time. Her friend that she abandoned Rex with for extended periods was willing to let me see my son and also did not like Marston at all.

Rex has four brothers waiting for him in Australia. They keep asking me when I can bring him home.These pictures were taken shortly before my sons left the Philippines to return to study in Australia.

Thinking back it seems that every time we went out Ruby was always unhappy and almost keen for it to be over. She always had nasty sarcastic comments and seemed ready to pick a fight.

Perhaps she could not wait to get back to her Din Din Ortin and take some Shabu together.

I have not received a direct response from Michael Effelberger to my Open letter but I have been advised that upon reading it again he declared WAR¹ on the Rotary Club.

Yes amazing as it may sound according to two witnesses at the Heidelberg Hotel on the night of the incident at MB’s Tavern Michael was there drunk and going on and on about myself and Rotary saying he would “bash” every Rotarian on the island of Mactan. I did not include this information in my open letter as I gave him the benefit of the doubt for it being some drunken nonsense. According to Daniel Miller and others he is in a perpetual state of drunkenness anyway.

I heard that  he again declared war on Rotary after reading my open letter and two members of the Outsiders took pictures of members of the Rotary club of Mactan and assaulted one.  Members of the Rotary club of Central Mactan later had a communication with Michael where he withdrew (or denied) his issue with Rotary now saying he only has an issue with me because I insulted and threatened his wife.

The fact is that I have never direclty spoke to his wife - not even on the night in question.  It’s funny that Michael claims to be so concerned about an insult to his wife Marlene because he bad mouths her more than anyone and “does not have much time for her” quote from the Peace Maker.

Michael is the owner of MB's Tavern on Mactan

I have now learnt a lot more about this Michael and realize I am not dealing with a normal intellegent person. I have received five private messages in addition to Daniels public comments and it seems he has a lot of enemies but most are scared to make any open comments.

I was told by the so called Peace Maker² that he was well respected. I now conclude that the peace maker was confusing respect with fear.

I had been willing to give him the benefit of the doubt but now I know he is not a man of honour. He is just a moron. Or perhaps his serious motorcycle accident of a couple of years ago where he lost an eye caused some brain damage.

Michael will come to realize that the most unfortunate day of his life was when he met Dean Boyd Marston and the biggest mistake of his life was when he decided to befriend and protect this criminal.

It seems they have a lot in common. Both are 24 hour drunks, both apparently like young girls and both are probably psychopaths (I am sure about Marston but I have not met Michael so can only go on the opinion of others).

There are also claims that Michael is involved in drugs. I have heard this MYSELF DIRECTLY FROM THE PDEA in addition to other sources. So that would be another thing that Marston and Michael would have in common.

I know the code of the Outsiders requires that they all band together and support him but I would suggest to any thinking member that they evaluate their ongoing support for this guy.

The spot light is turning on Michael and his activities and this has the potential to bring the outsiders into serious disrepute.

If Michael had been a man of his word when he told me the issue was over when I apologized without qualification for the event at MB’s then this would all be over already. He also had a chance to finish the matter by responding to my Open letter in a way that assured me he had no ill intentions towards me. His response has been to declare a personal war on me.

I know Michael believes killing me will put an end to this but be assured it would be the end of the Outsiders on Mactan if something happened to me. If Michael really is a psychopath then this threat will not stop him but I suggest any other member think about where he is currently taking the group.

I have also done some Googling on the net about Michael and here are two interesting items I found on World Sex Guide.

Mactan Travel Report Dated Added: Sun Mar 05 2006
If you are like me and love the Philippines make sure you are going to Mactan Island in Cebu Philippines. The girls there are likeing to fuck a lot and it is easy to find them for little money. Stay away from a place called MB’s Tavern. It is full of a gang called The Outsiders. They ride motorcycles and try very hard to act bad, but they are a bunch of pussys who have to band together to feel safe. Mostly they are Norwegian and Germans. They are over the hill-old men trying to be like young Marlon Brando, but they only succeed in buying pussy, Which anyone can do in the Philippines. They are comical wearing leather vests with “outsiders” written on the back like someone from an old comic book! Ha! They are a bunch of loosers and are infecting the girls at MB’s Tavern with drippy dick. Two of my friends got drippy dick picking up girls at that MB’s. The president of the outsiders club is a German Named Michael who brags that he has had drippy dick so many times that his doctor warned him that he was immune to most of the vaccines that cure it! This man is so stupid he tells this story out loud to virtually every one he meets! Very Stupid Man.

Lapu Lapu Escort Review Dated Added: Thu May 06 2004
MB’s Tavern is another great place to get pussy. Mikel, the owner has a small hotel located directly on the college campus and he has a 3 ring-binder with willing college students listed inside. Prices depend on the girls, runs about 1500 for an all night bang, and Mikel gets 500 for the room. But don’t eat at the Tavern! I had the shits for 5 days. If you get the runs, there’s a pill you can buy at the pharmacy called Immodium. It works. It’s hard to fuck when you have to run to the toilet between strokes.

Source: http://www.worldsexguide.com/guide/Asia/Philippines/Mactan_Island/index.htm

There is a lot more to come about Michael Effelberger President of the Outsiders MC and the owner of MB’s Tavern on Mactan

1. War is a word that apparantly Michael likes to use [↩]
2. person known to myself and Michael [↩]

The last time I saw Ruby she denied being a Shabu addict. Not surprising as drug addicts will almost never admit that they even take drugs.

When we first got together she did admit to me that she had tried Shabu once long ago. It turns out that once was around the same time I started dating her.To remind her here are her two friends you first tried Shabu with

Ruby's Shabu Firends

More will come out when we go to court for custody.
I also asked her how she supported herself when we first met. At first she said an allowance from her father but later the story changed to an online chat mate who wanted to marry her. As I understand it now she was still doing tricks hanging out at Nasa Disco. I really don’t know if the chat mate even existed.

Before me there had been a succession of other foreign guys.

Then there are the macho dancers that lived in the same apartment block. They are Filipino guys that dance at a gay bar in Mactan called Tarzan boy. They prostitute themselves to men and to older women and Korean women on holiday.

Ruby admitted that she had once dated a Macho dancer but said it was not any of the Macho dancers at the apartment. I now know different.

Ruby is a very good liar. In fact I am starting to think that she and Marston are made for each other. He has always preferred whores.

I know that Ruby is aware of Marstons interest in young girls. They have already had fights about him taking too much interest in young girls while they have been together. One incident I heard about was at your Aunties store in the Market.

Petition for Custody or Rex

When I returned to Australia in mid December 2008 I was an emotional wreck. The time spent with my family enabled me to put things back into perspective and I remember January 17 as being a turning point when I again took control of my life. I returned to the Philippines and have been on a fact finding mission since.

The truth can be a hard pill to swallow but I now realized that Ruby was just a gold digger from the start and never loved me. I have learnt how she was a high class pick up girl at Nasa disco. How she was having a relationship with a Macho dancer from the Tarzan Boy Gay Bar while I was courting her¹ . How it was always about money and things for her. She was always demanding from the beginning and I just accepted that.

When Ruby first got pregnant she was adamant that she wanted an abortion. I had to really convince her not to promising I would support her and the child. I promise I never shied away from. In hindsight it would have been better to have allowed her to but Rex was a child made with love - at least for me.

Perhaps the most hurtful thing I hear from Ruby now is that she claims I did not support her and Rex. That she can lie about something like this amazes me. It is almost laughable to anyone that knows us and I have so much proof of my support commencing when she first found out she was pregnant and only stopping when she ranoff with Marston denying me any access to Rex.

When I returned to the Philippines I decided I had to give her one last chance to continue to be the mother of Rex. I tried to offer her a way out of this mess in two open letters in which I poured out my heart. I doubt she has even read them or much of this site. Her response is to say that I am just making up stories and its all bullshit. At least I know I tried and I can sleep more soundly with that knowledge.

I now realize that Ruby it a totally unfit mother and I must now rescue Rex and bring him to Australia. In December my Attorney prepared a case for Custody of Rex and I have held back on lodging it until now. So it’s time to lodge this petition and go to court. Ruby will lose Rex and she has no one else but herself to blame

1. this also explained the used condom wrappers in her room she claimed belonged to a friend [↩]

I got an indirect answer to my open letter to Ruby. For the past couple of months on and off Ruby has been contacting a girl I know called Vanessa and trying to cause a problem between us. Her tactics have included telling her that she is my girl friend and that we are meeting in Manila or Palawan and a lot of other lies.

I had instructed Vanessa to ignore these txt messages in the past but now it is Vanessa who has sending messages to Ruby and got a response.

The first few messages from Ruby just say I am a shit guy and how much she loves Marston. A little later she sent a long message in Olongo which is her native dialect as she comes from Victorias in Negros.

Vanessa does not understand Olongo and so far I have only have a basic translation which seems to be the same bullshit she is always saying.

Here is her txt to Vanessa:

himohimo rasija sitorya ganto kay den gansya man ang mahilig sa babae himolos man sya ug 14 15 16 17 iya himoslan ikaw dai pilay imong idan aghimoslan ka ni chris?? indai sinkaw gatxt dako siman imo galan uyab kaw ni chris geatay manasya walakabalo gagebahan manasya gapatyon ni daen gagomansya tao ikaw lipay ba saija gadahan manasya babaeing gepahimoslan ugnaga mandosan palakiro sya wawakalang dai kay ako lipay gonko daen butan managon daen ganko higoma mankonya kaw higoma chris luykadai kayatay manasya layonyan saimo wawaka? Cge matolog na me ni daen dinami txt imo.

I will update this with an accurate translation¹ when I get one but Ruby is repeating Marstons false allegations of my involvement with underage girls, she also asks Vanessa how old she is and ask her if she is happy with me because I have so many girls and saying I lie to her all the time.  Well to answer the question of Ruby Vanessa is 18 years old.

HERE IS ONE TRANSLATION OF THE MAIN POINTS:

she said you like girls age 14, 15, 16,17 u just want sex with them she said
she said to the girl who text her that u are just using another girl just to make her jealous
she says also to the girl how old she is that u used her
she said if i were u girl just leave him because he is a playboy after he gets what he want he will just leave you not like with daen he love me so much and i m so happy with him
she said if i were u girl just leave him because he is a play boy after he gets what he want he will just leavei am to you not like with daen he love me so much and i m so happy with him
and last she said i will go to sleep and dont disturb us again bec. i will not reply you

Amazing stuff.  Everything here on this blog contradicts and refutes what Ruby says.  she is such a lier.

I doubt if Ruby has even read my open letter to her which I laboured over for hours pouring out my heart. She is able to dismiss it in a few seconds.

I really have to conclude that she has never loved me and was just using me. She is a party girl and loves wild sex and drugs. I was just too conservative and boring for her.

1. I received a summary by txt message [↩]

There is currently an Arrest warrant out for Australian national Dean Boyd Marston in connection with sexual offences against an underage girl in Cebu Philippines. Marston who is currently on bail for another offence is now in hiding assisted by his girlfriend Robelyn M. Bandejas (Ruby).  There are also two other Rape cases filed against him.

Wanted Dean Boyd Marston

Marston is a dangerous psychopath with a serious drug and alcohol addiction.

This is the actual wanted poster published in the Sun Star Newspaper

There is more evidence about the criminal activities of Marston and his friends that I can not make available to the public at this time. These include more pictures and affidavits from people that know him as well as some legally sensitive material.

I am making this information available to certain interested parties but only under the direction of authorities and legal council. If you think you are an interested party wanting more proof about the criminal activities of Marston and his friends then please contact me.

I have not seen Rex for a few months now. The last time I saw him he looked thin and sickly. He seemed despondent when I held him. I was very worried about him.

Rex with wig on

I now have a picture taken about three weeks ago and I am happy to say that he looks ok now. He is being cared for by a Yaya¹

From the moment we brought Rex home from hospital Ruby has always demanded I provide a Yaya and did so but lost count of how many we had. None would stay with her and she had something to say about each one. Eventually she had to long term friends come and stay in the spare bedroom and one of them was not working and took care of Rex while she was busy looking after Marston.

When the first arrest warrant for Marston was made last year they ran away and hid at a beach resort in Batangas going via Negros and collecting a Yaya. I understand the Yaya is some sort of relative and is the still looking after Rex.

According to her long term friend and the other people in the apartment block she never spent much time looking after Rex. She was always more concerned about Marston. I don’t care as long as Rex is well taken care of.

1. nanny [↩]

I just approved another three comments from you.

dennis y
philtas@yahoo.com

Submitted on 2009/02/09 at 2:21am
Well for all concerned fathers here i have a step daughter here in cebu and you fella are one of the guys i am looking for, and i will find you, you will stay away from my daughter who i might add is underage .Mr Bennetts i will make you pay that is a promise and a threat

Again here is another name I have never encountered before. If we were to assume that dennis y was a real person then it is implied that I know or have had some contact with his daughter which is serious enough that he is looking for me and threatens to make me pay. Don’t waste a second. Go straight to the Police with your daughter and make a compliant about me.  Of course you can not be you don’t exist.

Submitted on 2009/02/09 at 2:23am
A lot of people in this city are talking about the activities of both you and marston who i believe has run away. your come uppance is coming fella , big time,

Another threat.  So what are they saying about you Marston?

Submitted on 2009/02/09 at 2:31am
Bennetts i was also a guest at one of your mactan rotary meetings while there was a talk given about phedophila, one thing that struck me as strange was the fact that you, the president was sitting back and laughing about it. but i guess you will deny that also

This is the best.  Classic Marston - pure fiction easily refuted.   I am very sure we have never had a guest called dennis y at our Rotary club meetings.  This can be checked with attendance records BUT more importantly WE HAVE NEVER HAD A TALK ABOUT PEDOPHILIA at our club so yes I deny it as will every other member of the club. 

I invite any interest parties  (PNP, IJM, AFP etc) to confirm this with the other members of the club.

So thank you again Mr Marston for giving my side of the story more credibility as readers see more of your lies. 

  The drugs and booze combined with your mental illness are really effecting your logic  GET HELP!

Watched an interesting movie on cable the other night called School for Scoundrels which is apparently a remake of a 1960 movie I have not seen.

The story line is about a top-secret confidence building class for men with low self esteem and confidence taught by the suavely underhanded Dr. P and his assistant Lesher.

The movie is touted as a romantic comedy but according to most reviews fails to deliver. There is another aspect to this movie that is not mentioned in the movie blurb or main reviews. The movie actually depicts two psychopaths. If you search the net you can find this aspect discussed in various places.

Both Dr. P and his assistant Lesher are psychopaths that enjoy the power they have over the students humiliating and controlling them.

Most would immediately recognize Lesher as a psychopath as he takes obvious delight in the pain and suffering he inflicts on the students. Dr. P is not as obvious but every bit as psychopathic as the cruel Lesher.

Dr. P enjoys playing in the minds of the students and the story reveals that in each class he singles out one student to totally wreck. The rest of the students will emerge from the class with more confidence but one he will destroy. In the movie Roger is the student he has singled out for this class.

Rogers reason for enrolling is that he likes a girl in the same apartment block but is too shy to approach her. Dr. P assists him to do so and then has fun playing with Roger letting him make progress and then taking it away from him. Roger learns from a past student that he has done this many times before and locates a past student to help him expose Dr. P.

I see a direct parallel between Dr. P and Mr. Marston however Marston is nowhere near as smart as Dr. P. Both enjoy playing games with the lives and in the minds of others causing suffering. Both enjoy taking away another guys girl for no other reason than its some sort of personal challenge and power trip.

I know Marston has attempted to seduce or break up a dozen relationship I know of. As Harold from Bogo told me if you are sitting with your wife or girl friend at a table in a restaurant he will be trying to seduce her the minute your back is turned and would “be trying to touch her leg under the table in front of you” in front of you.

In the movie the question is posed multiple times by other students. Dr. P can get any girl he wants so why does he decide to go after Rogers girl? The movie never answers that question but if you understand a psychopath then you know the answer.

Here are the rules Dr. P gives his students for dating:

Be dangerous; it’s cool
No compliments, EVER!!!
Always get the girl alone
Wherever you are, the place is lame!
Relate to her
Lie, lie, and lie some more 

School for Scoundrels

The caption to this movie is Life’s A Game Learn How To Play   
This is the creed of a Psychopath - its all a game to them…

Here is a comment posted on this blog the day after I circulated the web address to fellow Rotarians.

geoff ashby
barrakiller@yahoo.comSubmitted on 2009/02/06 at 12:15am

clearly you do not know mr Bennetts very well, The story he is putting of about Rex is pure bullshit, Chris wanted nothing to do woth his son and even refused to give finincial support, Just how loving a father was he to rex, Well the day rex was baptised he left the party to have sex with a young girl who was attending

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Firstly, Who are you geoff ashby? I don’t remember ever knowing anybody called geoff ashby and you certainly were not at the party to you claim to have knowledge of.

In fact the only other person there other than the few friends and relatives of Ruby was Mr Dean Boyd Marston. It would be my guess that you are one in the same and even the style of your writing is that same.

Regardless I would like to thank you very much. I really mean it.

You have confirmed a major part of my story that Marston we feeding lies about me to Ruby way back then.

The facts are I spent most of the day at the christening and party and in the late afternoon rushed back to my home as I was taking care of my three boys also. I was gone an hour or two and returned. Marston was invited to go with me wanted to stay are the party - I wonder why!

The story about having sex with a young girl who was attending absolutely astounds me.

There were only a few of Ruby’s friends and relatives present and I would expect Ruby to know the story is false. Marston - Do you think before you make up such bullshit or looking at the time you would have been very drunk already when you wrote this?

Marston Likes Licking Young Girls

The only girl young girl present was the sister of Ruby who you seemed to like.

If there is a real Geof Ashby then he does not know anything about me as we have never met, and the only source of the lie contained in his post can be Marston. Therefore at best he is repeating a lies of Marston and has not spent much time reading my side of the story.  A total of 18 minutes skipping around the site. Had he read more he would see that I provided very well for both Rex and Ruby and only cut off the support after they refused to give me access to Rex and I discovered nothing much was being spent on Rex anyway (but I really am really sure this is a post from Marston).

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I have returned to the Philippines but at this time I feel it will just be to close down my house and sell my things after which I will return to Australia.  I do want to check up on Ruby and Rex while I am here but the most recent information suggests that she is still very much under the control of Marston.

Last night I attended the regular meeting of the Rotary Club of Central Mactan and had an opportunity to talk to Ralf who has known Ruby for a long time when she was the girl friend of another foreigner called Patty.

Ralf met Marston and Ruby at MB’s just a few weeks ago and give me his impression of how they looked and some of the conversation.  According to Ralf Ruby looks fine with no obvious sign of her drug addiction. In fact she said to Ralf that I am telling everybody she is a drug addict and laughed it off.  Marston also laughed.

Ruby spoke with emotion about my having lots of other women and in his opinion this is the source of her anger with me.

They spoke of me referring to me as “crazy” and said I even put an add in the paper about Marston which they showed Ralf¹.

Ruby said that I never loved her or Rex. Something she tells everyone and has also said to me. This belief is self-delusional and is obviously not true to any rational thinking person who takes even the most scant look at the circumstances. She needs this belief to justify being the puppet of Marston in inflicting so much abuse and suffering upon me. She probably even thinks most of it was her idea with no idea how she was manipulated by Marston.

On first impression to Ralf they seem like a happy couple. Marston even said to Ralf that when he “took Ruby he took the package”. Ralf explained he meant Ruby with Rex. A very convincing performance which would fool anyone meeting them for the first time. I will just say that Ralf was not meeting Ruby for the first time…

So the situation still seems hopeless with Ruby under the control of Marston.

Ruby can tell everyone she is not on drugs but the fact is she was under police surveillance buying drugs and narrowly escaped being arrested. Their attempts to purchase drugs for trike drivers in Victorias are also known to police. Many of Ruby’s friends and acquaintances also know of her drug addition and have spoken t me about it. How about submitting yourself to a hair pull test Ruby?

Marston and Ruby can turn on a good performance and it seems even try to depict me as the crazy guy. The weight of evidence against Marston is overwhelming. He can turn his charm on for a while but the abusive nature of a psychopath is hard wired and they can not control themselves for a prolonged period or actually change²

Marston has some powerful and dangerous friends

Since I returned I also learnt some more very disturbing information about some of the people now assisting Marston. I was only told previously that they had a reputation for getting results no matter what it took and how much it cost and that I should be concerned about that. I just learnt these people control drugs for the area where Ruby is known to buy. I also learnt that they are big time gun runners and “the Generals are even afraid of him”.  This new source said that they buy Judges and other officials which backs up what I was first told about them.

If Marston is arranging for something to happen to me then this group would most like be his instrument if not through his friend Michael of MB’s

Met another Victim of Marston

It was amazing after being told of their Oscar winning performance depicting me as the crazy guy and them as the happy loving couple I discovered a new victim of Marston.

After the Rotary meeting I went wit a few friends to a bar complex in Mandaue and had a couple of cold beers. I was sitting minding my own business when a girl already dressed approached me. She was from a Mango bar but out of work bar hopping with a guy. I did not recognise her and still don’t have any recollection of meeting her before.

She surprised me by asking if I was “Chris” and then saying “you are the enemy of Din Din” I asked her why she asked. She told me she knew him and was his girl friend before but she always bashes her (she put her hand to her face making a symbolic action of being struck to the face). She had no time to elaborate on the story as she was with her customer but has my contact information.

I have herd many stories of Marstons abuse towards women including instances of physical abuse. Her words “always bashes” suggests a more ongoing and regular physical abuse than I have herd before. Perhaps it was just her choice of words. If he did physically hurt her on more than one occasion then I suppose the term applies.

I have her name and the bars she currently works and will being following up her story and pass this on to the authorities so they can add it to his file and pursue the matter further if they want. I can also pass her story to the International Justice Mission (IMJ).

1. interesting that they carry it around with them [↩]
2. according to my research the abuse of a Psychopath peak in the 30s which is Marston age now and start to diminish at age 50 plus [↩]